The video of a lady (said to run mad on account of her dalliance with a pastor that used her for rituals) made the rounds, recently.
Please note that the average lady that has had more “street” life than normal isn’t far from such mental episodes.
The reality of the life style of RECKLESSLY ‘doing men’ is most brutal to your psyche.
If on that lane, you would need an ANCHOR (which most find in booze, drugs and the likes) to be able to live with your demons and IT GETS OUT OF HAND.
I am yet to see any lady who lived a WILD life that is NORMAL…deep down.
Some “off balance” behavioral tendency is always lurking somewhere beneath the surface. And it’s easily triggered.
Every life style comes at a cost!
In the hands of a mean fellow, even a dog will seem more dignified than you.
Every unpleasant experience you are exposed to deposits a certain TOXIN on your mental health.
When there are more of these toxins than healing/balance, a mental breakdown perpetuates.
The best CARE you can give to your mental health is to QUIT the life style that hits it hard.
Mind you, quitting is not enough!
You have LAYERS OF DAMAGE to undo, because your mental health is ALREADY compromised.
When you delay wholesome interventions (professional counselling, therapy, etc.) on your mental health, you just might find yourself on the streets…confessing to what you did and what you did not do.
Normalize seeing a Psychiatrist, especially when you feel you are NOT just yourself.
It doesn’t mean you will be locked up in a mental institution.
And you are not mad.
It just means that YOU NEED HELP to be OK, again.
The church has its God-given role in our lives but when it comes to your mental health, the right person to see is an EXPERT on mental health.
Not a Pastor!
Don’t form a close friendship with any lady, whose bakery is MEN!
They don’t come soft-hearted…living on men is a hard life, already.
Their own milk of human kindness is dry…this is what a degrading experience reduces one to.
Their fights are vicious.
The bakery is everything. And that is where the loyalty lies.
It’s nothing personal. It’s just that the deeper anybody lives a certain life style, the less their conscience speaks to them.
As you seek to advance your chances of survival in life, it’s important to mind where you dip your feet for friendship!
Look for goodness.
Look for kindness.
Look for decency.
Look for moral values.
Don’t give more focus to “contacts and connections” than you give to the pursuit of your talent, hard work and faith in God.
Some of these “connections” will rather leave your soul scarred!
There is nothing like a “soft life”.
A lot of that are life styles that encourage you to leave your dignity behind.
