Hajiya (Dr.) Maryam Abacha, the wife of the former Head of State, Late General Sani Abacha, has drawn the attention of society, especially men, to giving women the opportunity and freedom to seek western education, learn skills, and work for the development of the nation.
Maryam Abacha made the remark on Tuesday while interacting with journalists at her residence in Abuja.
Dr. Maryam said women influence building a better society because they are caregivers and can contribute significantly to the growth and development of society if given the opportunity.
She used this medium to make a special appeal to men to allow their wives to seek education, learn skills, and work for the betterment of themselves and society at large.
Dr. Maryam said men in the northern part of Nigeria do not support their wives to achieve their desired goals, stressing that the lack of support from men is setting things back in the region.
However, she has drawn women’s attention to the need to be humble and to protect their dignity when they have the opportunity; “protecting their dignity is very useful,” she said.
She recalled how she advised her husband to help Nigerian citizens.
The former First Lady urged women to always help their husbands with reasonable advice and information.
She called on men to listen to their wives’ advice, which she said, if they did so, would benefit them.
“I have often given advice to my husband, which he used, which eventually benefited the country,” she emphasized.
Maryam said, “It is good for women to join their husbands in making reforms that will benefit society.”
She advised anyone who finds himself in a position of authority to make sure he serves the community and not be an oppressor, because according to her, life is dynamic.
“Whenever you get a chance in life, be it being affluent or having power, be fair, just, kind, and honest to everyone, regardless of their status. Life is vibrant,” she says.
She told the journalists that anything a person has decided to do in life should be done with good intentions; “surely God will help you,” she said.
She urged women to read the stories of those who preceded them to understand the mistakes they made and to learn from them.
Hajiya (Dr.) Maryam Abacha outlined the developments she brought when she held the leadership of the Nigerian Army Officers Wives Association (NAOWA) and during her tenure as the First Lady of Nigeria.
During her tenure as president of NAOWA, she created many programs to support soldiers and their wives by educating, teaching, and supporting their children.
She also initiated and presided over the formation of joint military and police officers’ wives associations and equally encouraged the growth of other human development activities.
She saw the creation of the Joint Armed Forces and Police Officers Wives Consultative Committee (JOFOPOWOCCO), which was renamed to the Defense and Police Officers Wives Association (DEPOWA) to enhance the cordial relationship between the presidency and the various arms of the Armed Forces and the Police.
Hajiya Maryam has made for Nigeria while holding the office of First Lady, including the Family Support Programme, a program focused on health, education, agriculture, income generation, disability, and destitution, among others.
She also initiated the Family Economic Advancement Programme, the National Programme on Immunization, the Legal Aid Clinic Programme, the National Hospital for Women and Children, contributions to the State House, government programs, and the establishment of a Liaison Office for Former Heads of State and Spouses, among others.
After that, in the health sector, she initiated and sponsored many seminars and workshops on health, HIV/AIDS, immunization of children, and a program designed to eradicate six childhood killer diseases in Nigeria.
She was appointed a member of the Polio-Free Africa Committee of the World Health Organization (WHO), a distinguished African leadership committee established to eradicate polio in Africa.
The advice of the former First Lady of Nigeria, gave birth to the Federal Ministry for Women and Social Development.
